Hi, I’m Barry and I’m a junior editor with TheAdultJournal. I recently acted against my better judgement and tried Craigslist Casual Encounters. Here’s my story…
Most Friday and Saturday nights I can be found out with my buddies talking to a few ladies down at our local watering hole. It’s partially done out of tradition and partially done because we like to think we are going to meet girls every time we go. Honestly, we strike out MOST nights. It isn’t that we don’t have a good time, but there are so many things that can happen from the time you meet a girl to bar time. There are just too many variables that can get in the way of you getting laid, and many of those are out of your control. Just a few examples…
- She isn’t into the “one night stand thing”
- Her friends don’t like you or are overprotective
- She’s on her period
The list goes on and on…
This had been an ongoing issue that struck us fairly hard a few weeks ago. It was starting to seem like every single time we went out there was some issue that came up which threatened to ruin our night out. There is nothing more disappointing than going through the effort of meeting a girl, getting to know her, entertaining her, and then getting shot down by no fault of your own. (over and over again)
So, a friend of mine introduced me to a new idea…
Craigslist Casual Encounters
Casual Encounters on Craigslist is not a new thing, but it was new for me. I never really thought of myself as the type to give it a try. I guess I always thought it was meant for weird old guys to find prostitutes online.
Anyways, I gave it a shot. At first it was great because I saw a ton of different ads of girls who were local and really looking to get dirty quick. I thought to myself… “It makes sense, girls want to have sex just like guys. Why wouldn’t girls be on here more often looking to get laid?” – This was a stupid thought. The truth is ever guy that goes on this site that I’ve talked to goes through the exact same process…
- You are pessimistic and think it’s not going to work, the girls will be nasty, or you’re going to have to pay
- Then you think “Why not? What do I have to lose?”
- This girl reminds of girls I’ve met in the club before. I can believe what she’s saying
- Of course this is real, girls want sex too
- I wonder how hot she is?
- Wait, before I go any further, I should do an image search – This is where it hit me like a TON OF BRICKS
This is the moment of truth. Once you do an image search on Craigslist Casual Encounters, reality sets in. You realize that there are only two types of images… Really hot girls (fake) and really ugly girls. Just for my own amusement, I messaged one of the hot girls. Within seconds I got an email message back asking me to go to a website where she had her profile listed and we could get “frisky.” This is where I threw in the towel and was overcome with disappointment. She was obviously fake and my experience with casual encounters was over. It’s not terrible if you realize what you’re getting into, but make sure you realize two very important things… The hot girls will ask for your money somehow and the ugly girls will still be ugly tomorrow. I’m sticking with the bars.